Businees Success, Leadership & Mentoring
What would you do with greater wellness, purpose and abundance?
There is a time and things in life we are chosen to do. We don't know when we are going to be called to go home to heaven. That is why I am spurred on to live every day as if it is my last day. We just never know when that day will come.
Each one of us can impact someone's life every day. God gave each one of us something to do. You are here for a reason. I give horsemanship lessons, spirit horse retreats and share the healthy lifestyle of Young Living because I chose to serve others, and to embrace my calling with gratitude. That is why I am happy.
QUESTION NUMBER ONE – “Are You Happy?” 🙂
"Are you happy with the way you’re feeling in your day to day life?"
“Are you happy with the way you’re feeling in your body right now?”
If the answer is not a definite "YES" then ask yourself the rest of these questions and think about your answers.
QUESTION NUMBER TWO – “Do you have a plan to change that?”
It all starts with recognizing there are things you need to change and then creating a workable plan and sticking to it. A plan alone is a good thing, but I have noticed that committing to it to the end is the challenge. Those who persevere are the winners even if their plan isn't the best one. Those without any plan and who are not willing to sacrifice and keep going when it is tough will never see the changes they desire. So get a plan, any plan even if it is a weak one, then committ to it and don't give up. If you do you will be further ahead than most everyone else.
QUESTION NUMBER THREE – “Do You Want to See One?”
I have learned that not everyone is ready to change. They are very comfortable wearing the jersey they have had on for a long time, even if it is not working for them. It is all about timing. Are you ready or not? When you are ready you will give yourself permission to change and expand your world even if it is uncomforable to do so, even if it is not what everyone else is doing. When you are ready to quit living in the past and live in the present time, the right people and opportunities will come along to assist you. Will you recognize it? Or will you let the nay sayers still your dreams?
QUESTION NUMBER FOUR: Is your life working? Or are you fooling yourself?
I evaluate my life daily. I remind myself I am not a victum and I choose not to escape the difficulties but to love and empbrace life in order to make a difference in the world. There are simple NO MORE EXCUSES! Choice is what it takes to make changes. We can change our beliefs which will change our attitudes which will change our behaviors. We can change how we see ourselves.
QUESTION NUMBER FIVE: Is you life successful? Does your life make a difference? When the sunsets are you satisfied with what you have accomplished.
My life is full of deep burning purpose. I have dealt with my own personal insecurities. When others talk bad about me I reach back and grab my purpose. Choose life! Choose success! Don't ever get so satisfied that you quit.
QUESTION NUMBER SIX: Are you fulfilled with what you do? If not, I encourage you to find out what's missing. I believe that seekers will discover the truth they need. Without a purpose it is quite difficult to find fulfillment. Believe in who you are and the god given power he has give you. Take responsibility for choices, you can be whatever you desire to be.
QUESTION NUMBER SEVEN: Are you a spectator in life? Do you care what happens? In other words "Are you rowing your boat through life? Or are you still tyring to get in the boat? Are you trying to ride the wave of life without putting your boat in the water?
We all have a choice. Nobody can take that away from you. Freedom of Choice is yours. To not participate or be a spectator is a choice. We decide. We can make choices that defeat what we want or we can choose to be all in, with actions that often take us out of our comfort zones, but result in victories, if we stay the course. There are many ways to travel through life be sure to choose one.
QUESTION NUMBER EIGHT: Am I afraid of success? Are you caught in your own web?
We are the victim of our own choices. You can change. It is all about choice. When you are presented with an opprotunity don't say "I don't want to do that because it builds a wall around you that self sabatoges the blessings." How can you make a judgement until you tried it. Don't say - I don't want to do that. Don't set yourself up with I can't or won't. Don't shut the doors or build walls. Don't shut the life out. Leave doors open to experience life. Eliminate I can't or I'll try from your vocabulary. We can change. God have given you the power to change.
QUESTIONS NUMBER NINE: What kind of emotions are you ruled by? What emotion are you hanging onto?
Emotions rule the world, both good and bad. Everything in your life is determined by an emotional energy. The emotion is then manifest in the physical. They are the most powerful tool you have for both creativity and destruction. They can drive you to greatness or to the grave. You can take charge of your emotions or they will take charge of you. Don't allow negative emotions to dictate what you do. The key to change in life is acceptance, or acknowledgement, and then embracing everything with gratitude. We are by nature ungrateful. Everyone of us can show more gratitude to our Creator.
QUESTION NUMBER TEN: What kind of words do you use? Are you concsious of your language?
Pay attention to your talk. Speak only that which you choose to come into manifestation. Think twice before you manifest what you say. Align your words with your highest good because your mind takes what you say literally. Speaking is self-fulfilling prophesy. Words are spirit formed into matter. If you clean up your language miralces will happen.
Take the words I WANT... out of your vocabulary, and replace it with:
I choose... I can... I am... I will... I have... I love... I create... I enjoy...
The purpose of this blog is to encourage you in your career, business, life purpose to live the abundant life with gratitude and joy.
If you got value out of it, please let me know.
If you want to join my Sandhill Oils team where we share wellness, purpose and abundance with the world, it is an unlimited opportunity for those who are willing to apply the principles above. We will train, support and encourage you to success.
Sherry Jarvis YLmember #1695966
This is a guest blog By Sherma Cundall
She is my Young Living Leader who I respect and honor greatly. Please read this to the end with an open heart and mind. You will be glad you did. It is a great story, told from the heart by a woman who cares.
“IF YOU HADN’T MADE A MOVE WHEN YOU DID,
NONE OF US WOULD BE WHERE WE ARE TODAY!”
By Sherma Cundall
She was talking to ME!……… one of the gals after our Young Living, “Live Your Passion Rally” last Saturday here in Wheatland, Wy.
It caught me by surprise…..and a little shiver ran up my spine! Really? Yes! Really!! There were about 50 of us in the room that afternoon, learning, sharing, laughing, munching on goodies and just enjoying being together! Fifty may not sound like many but let me tell you a little about those 50! Most of them are committed to network marketing and they love what they are doing!
They love teaching people about living a chemical free lifestyle.
They love hanging out with people that are striving to stay healthy naturally.
They are making a difference in the lives of the people they love!
When I asked them to stand up if they had ever reached the level of Star in Young Living, all but a few stood up! Get that?? The majority in that room get a check from YL every month. I didn’t count how many have reached the level of Executive but there were many! Their average check would be $549! And there were 10 in that room of 50 that had reached the level of Silver! The average monthly paycheck at that level is $2200! Two in that room are pushing hard to reach the level of Gold this month! Gold is a monthly paycheck of about $6000! And me, myself and I…..I’m knocking on the door of Platinum…and the average monthly check at that level is $14,700!
How did I get here? Slowly, like a turtle! Some get there fast…like Mr Rabbit…but not me….I’m slow…..but I still got here…and that check still shows up every month! I never intended to make this a business. I was happy just sharing oils and the stories that go with them.
For years I didn’t tell ANYONE there was a business attached and they could make money if they wanted to. Even though I started using oils in 2003, it was 2010 before I started keeping track of what was happening and why. I reached the level of Silver in April of 2010 with 107 distributors and Gold in June of 2013. Up until last year I was still terrified to tell people they could make money just by telling their story! I had to grow out of that craziness!!
Just think about the 10 people I mentioned above and how that check has changed their lives! It might only be $100 but that can buy food or clothes for the kids! Do you think they’re glad I kept plugging along like a turtle, teaching and sharing a little now and then! I think they are!!
And what about Jerry and I? We grew up ranching and loving every minute of that life. We married and raised our 4 kids on the Cundall Family Ranch north of Wheatland. In the late 8o’s and early 90”s we got in financial trouble when the interest rate went from 8% to 20% on some of the ranchland we had purchased.
Due to circumstances we could not control, we chose to leave the ranch we loved so dearly, the home we built and the life we thought we would be a part of forever! We made some drastic changes that were devastating at the time. We had many, extremely stressful years, both emotionally and financially.
But this new life…our Young Living Life, has given us such wellness, purpose and abundance!!! We have been to Ecuador together, on a cruise, to northern Canada on a crazy fun Young Living Project and it goes on and on.
We have wonderful friends all over the world!! We travel to see our kids when we want to and the check shows up in our bank account no matter where we are! Would we have been able to do any of that if we were still ranching? Not a chance, because there was never enough time or money!! We are doing things we never dreamed possible!!
It’s exciting to think about those 2000 families that are re-writing their health story because I stuck with it. I am humbled and grateful! I am grateful for network marketing, the best business model in the world! People from every walk of life are doing it….lawyers, doctors, accountants, dad’s, mom’s, grandma’s, nurses…people everywhere! Why are they doing network marketing? If you were to ask one of the couples at last weeks event, they will tell you it’s because they can now both be home to raise their 7 beautiful children….to homeschool them and be a part of every minute of their growing up years! Another will say, “To help out with the family finances, homeschool our 2 children and take a family vacation to Disneyland for the first time ever!”
Is it for you? You are the only one that can answer that question! If you’re curious about it, let me know! But if you’re not, I hope you can read my story and be encouraged….know that you can do things that you never dreamed possible! Know that you can step out of your comfort zone, open new doors and “ Live The Life You Have Imagined!”
If you would like to see the YL income statistics go here! www.youngliving.com/IDS
Are you motivated to make a DIFFERENCE in the world?
Do you love HELPING OTHERS and working with like-minded people?
Are you ready to create a positive CHANGE in your life?
WE HAVE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR…
But you will only know if you check it out for yourself.
Sherry Jarvis here, writing you a personal letter about something in my life that I am super excited about. I hope that you will take the time to read this to the end and seriously think about wellness, purpose, and abundance in your own life.
For the last three plus years I have been making some serious changes to my lifestyle because I started thinking a little more about the future. I asked myself questions like:
- How does a horse trainer retire without a pension?
- How do I keep this body working properly so that I can enjoy riding horses for a very long time?
- What is my purpose in life?
- What am I most passionate about?
- What kind of legacy do I want to leave?
- Why do I want to help others realize their dreams?
- Who should I share this great opportunity with?
- Why does our health matter so much?
- Where is the best place to get products that will enhance, support and maintain optimal health without undesirable side effects?
Well I am definitely discovering the answers to all of those questions through my involvement with Young Living and the people I have met who are supporting and encouraging me as I grow and learn not only about health, but about personal development, communication and connecting with others, dealing with different personality types, plus business and finances as well. It is an exciting journey we are taking together as a like-minded family.
If you would like to be a part of a group of positive people who are like-minded and want to see you succeed in your life goals and dreams, then I would like to encourage you to keep reading. If you are not, then you can just stop reading right now and forget about what has changed my life for the better. If you stop reading, please know that I am still wishing you the very best blessings in life and I respect your decision, because I care about you.
If you are still reading then you might be the kind of person I want to share this opportunity with. I am on a mission to help others succeed right along beside me. I am connecting with quality people like you who are honest, trustworthy, dependable, hard-working, positive thinkers, team players, who will step out and be passionate about something they believe in and stay committed to it when the going gets tough. I don’t want people who are afraid of succeeding, don’t have big dreams, or lack vision, consistency and persistence. But even if you think you may be weak in one of these areas, if you have the burning desire to change then I am ready and willing to mentor you and stick with you until you see the changes you desire.
Are you curious yet? Does it sound too good to be true?
I won’t lie to you. What I have been doing the last three years has been challenging, but it has been the best decision I have made in a long time. So that is why I am not begging just any warm body to join me in this journey, because I want to work with the willing. And if you are not willing to overcome some challenges to achieve your goals and dreams then what I have to offer you is probably not for you. I respect you for being honest with yourself and with me because it will save a lot of heart ache down the road.
I honestly can say that I know sharing this opportunity with others is part of my purpose. It is filled with highs and lows like anything worth fighting for in life, but the abundance of rewards is worth it.
Some of the rewards I have received are better health, energy, rest, a less toxic home, peace, love, faith, growth in all areas of my life, knowledge, wisdom, passion, leadership skills, and deep friendships. Then there is the satisfaction of helping other’s get those same rewards and their own personal rewards, which may be different than mine. Seeing other people live their passion and dreams and being a part of it with them is just slamming great! Plus I have also been rewarded financially as well.
So how do you know if being a part of our Sandhill Oil team is right for you or not? Well first I suggest you pray about it if you are a praying person, and then do some research. Get knowledge and then do some soul searching.
and my blog where I tell my story of how I got started and reasons I chose Young Living http://sherryjarvis.simplesite.com/423803300
If you are passionate about a healthy lifestyle, getting rid of toxins in your life, personal development, living a quality life with wellness, purpose, and abundance, you are a go getter, and you want to help other’s, then I believe you are possibly the kind of person I want to work with.
So after viewing the above websites and praying about it, I hope to hear from you.
Call me at 308-730-2150 or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
I will not bug you about this, because I only want people who take action and know it is right for them personally. Do it for you, not for me. Then I know we will succeed together.
Thanks for reading my letter, and considering my offer to partner with me in a new healthy lifestyle with purpose and abundance. I am reaching my goals of green living, optimal health, more energy, natural beauty, fitness and finances with Young Living, and if you have similar goals I can help you too.
YL Member #1695966
Do you tend to complicate your life way too much?
Have you ever thought think a plan is just "too simple" so you don't want to even try it?
We have been raised with the industrial age mentality of going to work, working hard, and trading our time for money.
Are you tired of earning a living this way?
I was! And many are, whether they admit it or not.
- Why do you think so many say "TGIF" week after week?
- Why is "Happy Hour" so popular?
- Why is everyone always excited about weekends and most of all a week or two of vacation?
- Perhaps it is because they are overstressed, overworked and just feel they need that deserved break.
- with a simple business plan you could still make a good amount of money, but without trading time for money?
- you actually were passionate about what you did and took a few minutes a day to post a little video or a pictogram to social media to help people in some way?
- you could use our time wisely, blessing people while enjoying life, family and friends at the same time, not needing weekends or vacation time so badly
There is a concept that works.
It is a simple concept that has been used for years and year. Basically it is the idea that we recruit and train others to do what we do. Jesus used this concept and so did Mother Theresa, which is why so many people were helped. Alone they could not have done it, but they recruited a few people and trained them, and these people did the same thing.
Part of my purpose in life is to impact the lives or 7million people for the better.
The best way to get the message across to millions of people is not ad campaigns, which cost millions of dollars, but rather word of mouth promotion. One person touching another and then that person touching another, so on and so on. Which means one person can impact the lives of many simply by touching one person.
The idea of Network Marketing is promoting and offering products directly to customers who love the products so they share them with others, then the compmany rewards them in different ways for doing so. Anyone who desires to run a business and will invest a little time and money each day in building this business, without treating it with a lottery mentality, can go far.
I have started more than one business from scratch and I have even purchased a franchise as an entrapanure. I invested a lot of time and especially money. However the financial risk in network marking is very minimal. Entry cost is usually a starter kit with products that you will use for your benefit. The monhtlly cost is mostly on continuing to purchase these products and use them on a regular basis, including them in your lifestyle. Which this alone is a great beneift.
So the first step for a successful network marketer is to LIVE THE LIFESTYLE. If you don't love the products, if they are not enhancing your life in some way, this company is not the one with which you should be involved. But if you do love the products then don't buy anything they offer from another outlet.
The second step is to SHARE. This doesn't mean simply getting a bunch of people on your team, but rather offer the opportunity to everyone, yet carefully select those who you train to do the same thing as you are doing. Living the lifestyle and then sharing with others.
Always remember, that some will, some won't, and so what!!! Some may love the products but not want to do anymore than that, so respect their desire. But those who you see are passionate about them may be people you want to move on to the next step which is to TRAIN them to do what you do.
Through it all, remember this is about building strong relationship with people, helping them to be their best, and not just creating a business patnership.
The third step is TRAIN! Training means we help people understand the concept of network marketing. Teach them the simple business plan, and either work with them one on one or put them in a group where you all work together.
Remember training does not mean doing it all for them. You will burn out. Afterall, we each signed up to be independent distributors, not leaders codependent on our sponsors.
Do you want to ensure your success? Then have an open mind, a great desire to keep learning, seek self-development and realize that challenges are only stepping stones to a new level of abundance in your life. And quitting is not an option if you want to succeed.
As a leader of your team you must always stay attentive to your members. If someone is struggling you must be there for them. Get to know the personality color of each of
your members and realize you have to treat them all on an individual basis. They are not all the same. Some prefer not to be bothered by the leader, others want to just touch base when they need extra support, others want to continue a relationship with us
throughout their journey. Honor their individual style and wishes.
So in review here are the three steps to succeed in Network Marketing;
- Simply continue living the lifestyle, buy from your own store, not the one down the street.
- Share with new people on a regular basis and form relationships with them, support them in product usage.
- Train those who are interested in sharing about the company, products and opportunity with others.
So as you can see this is a fairly simply business plan. I love that the company we promote will take care of all the paperwork and will make sure orders are filled and shipped out. I don't have to have any inventory, worry about sales taxes etc. because I hate bookwork.
Plus Young Living gives many incentives through product promotions and earning reward points, which are just amazingly generous.
If you are interested in joining my Sandhill Oils Team contact me at
We are coming into my favorite seasons, fall and the holidays. It seems most everyone I talked to this summer said, "I will do this or that after the busy summer season is over." However, I have noticed that people get even more busy as we approach the Holidays. So when is it that things settle down? But that is not exactly what this post will be about because I already wrote about Life is Too Short To Be Busy in another blog post.
This summer went by so fast. I guess it was no different from any other summer. I had a lot of people here to trail ride and take riding lessons. I traveled more this summer for speaking engagements for Christian Women's Groups than I did for horse clinics, although I did make my annual trip to WY to teach a horsemanship clinic.
I also caught up with Young Living Teammates at the "Live Your Passion" 2016 Convention in Salt Lake City, UT. Other activities included: riding in a Richard Winter's Horsemanship Clinic, tubing down the Calamus River, Burwell Fair and Rodeo, painting some rodeo pictures for the local fairgrounds entrance, mentoring business partners, playing the piano for worship at Grace Family Fellowship, participating in my local writer's group, a weekly prayer meeting, and spending time with family and alone with God. It is hard to believe it is already the first of Oct.
I am sharing this information with you because I feel like I accomplished a lot this summer without being too busy because I had a plan and I rely on God to direct my path on a daily basis.
At the beginning of the year I had created daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly goals that led me to develop some good habits before summer arrived. I have learned that if you have a VISION – that VISION will drive you! If you do not have a vision you will stay stagnant or you might just keep circling the wagons without getting the victory.
In January I wrote down my vision and made my ‘vision board’. I keep it in front of me on a daily basis. It is the cover on my laptop. It encourages me so much, especially when I can cross off the daily activities that lead to achieving those things on my 'vision board'. If you haven't created on yet, I highly suggest that you do. I made mine on www.picmonkey.com. It was easy. I got pictures from www.pixabay.com
Do you feel overwhelmed and out of control when the days shorten, the leaves begin to fall and the chaos of the holiday season is all around you?
Then I invite you to join our Thursday night conference calls where I am mentoring folks in developing and living their purpose.
Just call 712-770-4160 access code 983249 at 7:30 pm CT and listen in. We aim to help you manage the chaos of the Holiday season by creating a purpose and setting priorities.
Free free to contact me at anytime email@example.com
Or join me on my facebook live videos every Wed. at noon CT for encouragement.